Were you caned growing up? Do you cane your children now?
01-05-2023, 09:20 AM
01-05-2023, 09:49 AM
This is what I heard from a discipline master.
Those bad students who caned by him before, still look for him after leaving school. Those good students, never see them again.
会说你不是的人,其实是上天派来拯救你。切记!
Those bad students who caned by him before, still look for him after leaving school. Those good students, never see them again.

会说你不是的人,其实是上天派来拯救你。切记!
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"
01-05-2023, 10:38 AM
(01-05-2023, 09:49 AM)RiseofAsia Wrote: This is what I heard from a discipline master.
Those bad students who caned by him before, still look for him after leaving school. Those good students, never see them again.
会说你不是的人,其实是上天派来拯救你。切记!

01-05-2023, 10:42 AM
01-05-2023, 10:59 AM
Now where got children crying being caned by parents
A bit fall parents so heart pain why?
Birth rates subsided mah
A bit fall parents so heart pain why?
Birth rates subsided mah
Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you also be like him" (Proverbs 26:4)
01-05-2023, 11:09 AM
01-05-2023, 12:04 PM
I always like this phrase Spare the rod spoil the child. But now is 2023 cannot hoot wait kena charged in court go inside eat black bean rice. That is why newer generations so garang nowadays
01-05-2023, 12:28 PM
Daily in kindergarten the teacher will check if there are any bruises on the children. If found, the parent will need to sign on their acknowledgement book.
02-05-2023, 06:09 PM
In I Ching wisdom.
Canning or not canning is not so critical.
The important thing is to let your child understand the mistake he has made.
It is the process, that is important.
Before 13 years old, the child is more willing to listen.
1st time make mistake.
You can let him off but must ask him to explain what mistake he has made.
2nd time make mistake again.
You ask him how many times he has made the mistake.
He replied, it is 2nd time. So how?
He replied, I will correct my mistake.
So you still can let him off.
3rd time, make the mistake again.
Now you ask him, you want to use what item to cane him. He replied, use newspaper. Then you ask him, which part of the body to receive the cane? He replied, Buttock. Finally, you ask him, left side or right side.
It is still up to you to decide whether you want to cane him. Never tell your child you wont cane him.
After 13 years old, he will be more rebellious.
You need to try other way.
Try not to use cane.
Canning or not canning is not so critical.
The important thing is to let your child understand the mistake he has made.
It is the process, that is important.
Before 13 years old, the child is more willing to listen.
1st time make mistake.
You can let him off but must ask him to explain what mistake he has made.
2nd time make mistake again.
You ask him how many times he has made the mistake.
He replied, it is 2nd time. So how?
He replied, I will correct my mistake.
So you still can let him off.
3rd time, make the mistake again.
Now you ask him, you want to use what item to cane him. He replied, use newspaper. Then you ask him, which part of the body to receive the cane? He replied, Buttock. Finally, you ask him, left side or right side.
It is still up to you to decide whether you want to cane him. Never tell your child you wont cane him.
After 13 years old, he will be more rebellious.
You need to try other way.
Try not to use cane.
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"
02-05-2023, 06:35 PM
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