Just now I got one cousin never give me red packet -
[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
who is last year got married , instead my parents give them red packets.
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Blasterlord2 - 23-01-2023
Why cousin must give angbao? You so desperate for money ah?
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 12:52 AM)Blasterlord2 Wrote: Why cousin must give angbao? You so desperate for money ah?
Married one standard give red packets mah.
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Blasterlord2 - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 12:53 AM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: Married one standard give red packets mah.
BS lah. But I must agree ppl are very stingy these days. My standard is at least $10 but they only give my daughter $6. Wah lau, this going on for years. They buay paiseh meh
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 12:58 AM)Blasterlord2 Wrote: BS lah. But I must agree ppl are very stingy these days. My standard is at least $10 but they only give my daughter $6. Wah lau, this going on for years. They buay paiseh meh
what BS? Isn't married one must give red packet meh
side note, 6 bucks also money what. I honestly speaking my parents give 8 bucks , but come wedding , or baby birthday of course give more.
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Blasterlord2 - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 01:02 AM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: what BS? Isn't married one must give red packet meh
side note, 6 bucks also money what. I honestly speaking my parents give 8 bucks , but come wedding , or baby birthday of course give more.
You go and ask around lah. Nowadays same generation dun give to same generation.
Of cos $6 is ok. I dun belittle $6. But pls lah, they brought one bunch of children to the house and year after year give that amount even though I give them a lot more. Mine is a single income family but they have couple working leh. Definitely earn more than me. Isn't it right to reciprocate?
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 01:07 AM)Blasterlord2 Wrote: You go and ask around lah. Nowadays same generation dun give to same generation.
Of cos $6 is ok. I dun belittle $6. But pls lah, they brought one bunch of children to the house and year after year give that amount even though I give them a lot more. Mine is a single income family but they have couple working leh. Definitely earn more than me. Isn't it right to reciprocate?
I from Gen X leh , my cousin is from Gen Z they around 20++ me 40 +
for your case , you claim they give u 6 bucks to your kid , than you also give back 6 bucks to their kids lor
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Blasterlord2 - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 01:12 AM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: I from Gen X leh , my cousin is from Gen Z they around 20++ me 40 +
for your case , you claim they give u 6 bucks to your kid , than you also give back 6 bucks to their kids lor
Like that u not paiseh to still think he'll give u angbao?
I didn't know they give so little until my wife told me about it. I'm not the one who open the angbao. But ya, next year give them less
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TalkingRabbit - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 12:53 AM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: Married one standard give red packets mah.
waliao you buay pai seh, so old already still wants to collect ang bao from relatives ah
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ROFLMAO - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 01:12 AM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: I from Gen X leh , my cousin is from Gen Z they around 20++ me 40 +
for your case , you claim they give u 6 bucks to your kid , than you also give back 6 bucks to their kids lor
You not xiasuay??
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Sharexchange - 23-01-2023
Gay got discount
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p1acebo - 23-01-2023
My sis gives only $4 but I give minimum $10 or $20 depending on who.
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
pai seh for what?
I learn from PAP mah
got money on the table don't take??
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RichDad - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 12:53 AM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: Married one standard give red packets mah.
Why not automatic? Still collect any pow at your age??
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:21 PM)RichDad Wrote: Why not automatic? Still collect any pow at your age??
I still single mah
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RichDad - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 07:45 AM)p1acebo Wrote: My sis gives only $4 but I give minimum $10 or $20 depending on who.
Market rate is min $20 for relatives. More for own children.
$10-12 for cleaners, maids, bangla, pump assistants, etc.
$4 is way below market rate. Now inflationary pressure leh. Everything must go up.
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RichDad - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:22 PM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: I still single mah
Single also can give ang pow. Did you give to children and old folks?
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:26 PM)RichDad Wrote: Single also can give ang pow. Did you give to children and old folks?
cannot give rah , the rule is Single take mah .
I give my cousin tibits and drinks
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RiseofAsia - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 12:58 AM)Blasterlord2 Wrote: BS lah. But I must agree ppl are very stingy these days. My standard is at least $10 but they only give my daughter $6. Wah lau, this going on for years. They buay paiseh meh
Close relative give more, not so close give less.
My daughter told me his classmate received $1k red angbow from his grandparent.
Is it too much?
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hansamu - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:26 PM)RichDad Wrote: Single also can give ang pow. Did you give to children and old folks?
Precisely...rules are all men made .
Singles doing well are also sharing generously.
Be magnanimous, not calculative.
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hansamu - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 07:45 AM)p1acebo Wrote: My sis gives only $4 but I give minimum $10 or $20 depending on who.
I gave $10 to $20.
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:38 PM)hansamu Wrote: Precisely...rules are all men made .
Singles doing well are also sharing generously.
Be magnanimous, not calculative.
If Rich yet " stingy " than need to be say lor..
IF I DAM RICH , I also can give , each red packet put 5k
Recently that what influencer Naomi showing off her red packets got stalks of 5o bucks inside. Quite thick
Obviously some of her relative is rich , beside herself.
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RiseofAsia - 23-01-2023
I still remembered when I was a little boy, one of my uncles gave me $20 red packet.
That was so long ago.
I was so happy
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:41 PM)RiseofAsia Wrote: I still remembered when I was a little boy, one of my uncles gave me $20 red packet.
That was so long ago.
I was so happy
last time 20 bucks is consider quite a big red packet.
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TalkingRabbit - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:41 PM)RiseofAsia Wrote: I still remembered when I was a little boy, one of my uncles gave me $20 red packet.
That was so long ago.
I was so happy
(23-01-2023, 02:43 PM)[[ForeverAlone]] Wrote: last time 20 bucks is consider quite a big red packet.
last time my dad used to give us $365 red packet so that every day would be 平安顺利. so i'm more or less influenced by him and give big red packet to my nephews. thankfully i don't have many of them
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Blasterlord2 - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:37 PM)RiseofAsia Wrote: Close relative give more, not so close give less.
My daughter told me his classmate received $1k red angbow from his grandparent.
Is it too much?
Those who give less are actually my relatives
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[[ForeverAlone]] - 23-01-2023
(23-01-2023, 02:53 PM)TalkingRabbit Wrote: last time my dad used to give us $365 red packet so that every day would be 平安顺利. so i'm more or less influenced by him and give big red packet to my nephews. thankfully i don't have many of them
from young till now, my Biggest red packets Always is from my Father side , my Rich Uncle and Aunty
standard. The rates increase as I grow up, remember i just 10 years old they already give me 50 to 100 bucks , slowly increase till now is 1k
my mother side , the uncles and aunties not much , biggest received is 20 bucks , if my mother sister give will be slightly a bit more sometimes but always also the same roughy 20 bucks or so , less than 30 bucks.