1. Gaslighting 2. Triangulation 3. Projection 4. Controlling Your Life 5. Name-Calling 6. Generalizations 7. Moving the Goalposts 8. Love Bombing 9. Changing the Subject 10. Playing on Insecurities 11. The Silent Treatment 12. Passive-Aggressiveness 13. Being Dismissive or Diminishing 14. Treating You Like a Child 15. Blaming the Victim for the Abuse 16. Using Guilt Trips 17. Using Threats or Coercion