07-02-2022, 08:32 PM
20 Identifying Traits Of A Paranoid Personality in Relationships
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20 Identifying Traits Of A Paranoid Personality in Relationships
07-02-2022, 08:40 PM
Behavioral Traits Of A Paranoid Personality
Consider the aforementioned words from the victims and examine these 20 behavioral traits that are often associated with the paranoid personality:
1. Is seemingly always distrustful or suspicious without need.
2. Is highly moralistic and judgmental.
3. Habitually questions the intentions of others, including spouse, intimate relations, family, or workmates.
4. Is guarded, secretive, devious, scheming, or thinks others around him are that way.
5. Is unbending in thoughts and ideas—stubbornly holds onto beliefs with rigid thinking.
6. Holds grudges for a long time and is not forgiving of slights, even after many years.
7. Is a chronic complainer and malcontent—never satisfied everything is above board or assumes something nefarious is at play.
8. Claims that past failings at work, life, or in relationships have been the direct fault of others.
9. Has a need to control family members or loved ones very strictly and may be very regimented.
10. Never seems to be happy—all too often is on edge, anxious, or irritated—there always seems to be a looming threat “out there.”
11. Strongly believes and constantly seeks evidence that others will eventually disappoint or take advantage of him.
12. Often has an unrelenting one-track mind about this or that issue which you also must see as an important issue.
13. Questions the loyalty and veracity of others, even loved ones, without basis or seeing hidden meaning in the comments made by others.
14. Becomes suspicious and questions family members or loved ones when they interact with neighbors, postal or delivery personnel, or benign strangers.Having a paranoid partner
15. Sees pending or looming threats that others don’t seem to see, understand, or comprehend, as he does and insists that you see things his way also.
16. Since entering into a relationship with this individual you see fewer and fewer of your old friends or family members.
17. You find yourself having to account for your time when you are away from home.
18. This individual takes offense when you make calls, engage in conversations, email, or talk to others and he is not a participant.
19. Denigrates you or others as “foolish,” “naïve,” “stupid,” or uses some other form of ad hominem attack because his knowledge and understanding are so perfect.
20. Since entering into a relationship with this individual you are less happy, less outgoing, less social, or less confident; or you find you are more worried, nervous, anxious, or preoccupied with how he reacts to you.
Consider the aforementioned words from the victims and examine these 20 behavioral traits that are often associated with the paranoid personality:
1. Is seemingly always distrustful or suspicious without need.
2. Is highly moralistic and judgmental.
3. Habitually questions the intentions of others, including spouse, intimate relations, family, or workmates.
4. Is guarded, secretive, devious, scheming, or thinks others around him are that way.
5. Is unbending in thoughts and ideas—stubbornly holds onto beliefs with rigid thinking.
6. Holds grudges for a long time and is not forgiving of slights, even after many years.
7. Is a chronic complainer and malcontent—never satisfied everything is above board or assumes something nefarious is at play.
8. Claims that past failings at work, life, or in relationships have been the direct fault of others.
9. Has a need to control family members or loved ones very strictly and may be very regimented.
10. Never seems to be happy—all too often is on edge, anxious, or irritated—there always seems to be a looming threat “out there.”
11. Strongly believes and constantly seeks evidence that others will eventually disappoint or take advantage of him.
12. Often has an unrelenting one-track mind about this or that issue which you also must see as an important issue.
13. Questions the loyalty and veracity of others, even loved ones, without basis or seeing hidden meaning in the comments made by others.
14. Becomes suspicious and questions family members or loved ones when they interact with neighbors, postal or delivery personnel, or benign strangers.Having a paranoid partner
15. Sees pending or looming threats that others don’t seem to see, understand, or comprehend, as he does and insists that you see things his way also.
16. Since entering into a relationship with this individual you see fewer and fewer of your old friends or family members.
17. You find yourself having to account for your time when you are away from home.
18. This individual takes offense when you make calls, engage in conversations, email, or talk to others and he is not a participant.
19. Denigrates you or others as “foolish,” “naïve,” “stupid,” or uses some other form of ad hominem attack because his knowledge and understanding are so perfect.
20. Since entering into a relationship with this individual you are less happy, less outgoing, less social, or less confident; or you find you are more worried, nervous, anxious, or preoccupied with how he reacts to you.
07-02-2022, 08:42 PM
07-02-2022, 10:51 PM
Think curiousman is in a very sorri state 
There is no right or wrong decisions.
One only has to bear the consequences that one makes
08-02-2022, 12:08 AM
ET?
and his mother?
and his mother?
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08-02-2022, 07:57 AM
One thing I learn in life is actually this.
If you encounter someone with a problematic personality best thing to do is avoid the person. There are many different problematic personalities... narcissism personality, sociopathic personality, psychopathic ....these can result in toxic relationships when one is attracted to positive side and ignore these personality problems.
Never hope he or she will change. Because it is deeply inborn....even if change will take very long and decades of cultivation ..
Similarly a partner who hit you is likely to repeat ...person who cannot control ego and temper ...is too difficult to change ..
A person with healthy personality is rarely perfect but has imperfections one can tolerate.
For a long time I have reflected on my thoughts and motivation ...emotions distort ..once we can see past our own distortion only then we can see truths. A healthy good personality can be build upon close reflection of our thoughts and motivation. One Buddhist Concept I find effective is mindfulness.
Many people go through live driven by emotional responses without reflecting on their thought process
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If you encounter someone with a problematic personality best thing to do is avoid the person. There are many different problematic personalities... narcissism personality, sociopathic personality, psychopathic ....these can result in toxic relationships when one is attracted to positive side and ignore these personality problems.
Never hope he or she will change. Because it is deeply inborn....even if change will take very long and decades of cultivation ..
Similarly a partner who hit you is likely to repeat ...person who cannot control ego and temper ...is too difficult to change ..
A person with healthy personality is rarely perfect but has imperfections one can tolerate.
For a long time I have reflected on my thoughts and motivation ...emotions distort ..once we can see past our own distortion only then we can see truths. A healthy good personality can be build upon close reflection of our thoughts and motivation. One Buddhist Concept I find effective is mindfulness.
Many people go through live driven by emotional responses without reflecting on their thought process
I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.
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