Posts: 14,862
   
Threads: 10,412
    
Likes Received: 2,343 in 2,140 posts
Likes Given: 397
SELINA LUM, LAW CORRESPONDENT
Sep 15, 2021 06:00 am
Years after his divorce, a retiree felt so resentful that he engraved on a knife the dates of his former wife's alleged dalliances before ambushing her at a carpark at the Institute of Technical Education (ITE) College Central campus.
......
Seet was convicted of a reduced murder charge yesterday.
The High Court heard that Seet stabbed himself repeatedly with the same knife after attacking Ms Low at the carpark of the Ang Mo Kio campus.
https://www.tnp.sg/news/singapore/man-wh...der-charge
Posts: 17,983
   
Threads: 2,064
    
Likes Received: 4,798 in 4,067 posts
Likes Given: 721
冰冻三尺,非一日之寒。
Start to solve the relationship problem asap before it has turned sour. This case would not have happened.
“Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind"
>
(This post was last modified: 15-09-2021, 07:39 AM by
RiseofAsia.)
Posts: 8,985
   
Threads: 178
    
Likes Received: 2,136 in 1,864 posts
Likes Given: 575
Wife trying to get greedy for not returning her share of condo unit. 活该
Posts: 5,065
   
Threads: 192
    
Likes Received: 1,368 in 1,144 posts
Likes Given: 713
15-09-2021, 08:51 AM
生不带来,死不带去,要看的開,放的下。
Posts: 1,577
   
Threads: 16
    
Likes Received: 868 in 567 posts
Likes Given: 808
Posts: 20,170
   
Threads: 546
    
Likes Received: 4,667 in 4,160 posts
Likes Given: 481
(15-09-2021, 07:52 AM)Sharexchange Wrote: Wife trying to get greedy for not returning her share of condo unit. 活该
I thought that the condo unit is with 2 names, viz husband and wife name, therefore the husband should be entitled half the share of the condo unit..
Posts: 12,242
   
Threads: 513
    
Likes Received: 2,587 in 2,293 posts
Likes Given: 814
(15-09-2021, 08:56 AM)kangtangman Wrote: 要看的開,說的比做的還要容易。
Posts: 4,565
   
Threads: 39
    
Likes Received: 650 in 606 posts
Likes Given: 48
(15-09-2021, 09:00 AM)debono Wrote: I thought that the condo unit is with 2 names, viz husband and wife name, therefore the husband should be entitled half the share of the condo unit..
Who pay the most loh....those who pay less will get lesser....not 50-50 hor...
Posts: 2,949
   
Threads: 503
    
Likes Received: 571 in 458 posts
Likes Given: 69
can tell he is in great pain
such act can tell
he cannot let go
Posts: 22,344
   
Threads: 6,337
    
Likes Received: 4,129 in 3,236 posts
Likes Given: 487
(15-09-2021, 11:56 AM)Talent Wrote: can tell he is in great pain
such act can tell
he cannot let go
Ability to let go and move away from bad experience is important.
A purely unemotional person can easily let go and move ahead.
There was a previous case of Singaporean man who went to US. He wife started seeing another man and wanted divorce, he killed the man and now in jail. .....in the end he cannot let go and destroyed 2 lives. His own and the man he killed. It is illogical and makes no sense.he was a successful engineer who drove a Mercedes now he is thrown in jail for 26yrs. He could have moved on find someone else and lead a successful life....but he could not get out of his emotional trap.....
Such emotional traps be it demotivating, jealousy, addiction or self limitation can trap and lock a person in a vicious cycle.
The story is here:
https://www.straitstimes.com/world/unite...-wife-then
I, being poor, have only my dreams; I have spread my dreams under your feet; Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.
>
(This post was last modified: 15-09-2021, 12:59 PM by
sgbuffett.)
Posts: 3,180
   
Threads: 48
    
Likes Received: 546 in 463 posts
Likes Given: 457
tragedy all around…caused by heavy bias against men in Singapore..
Posts: 1
   
Threads: 0
    
Likes Received: 1 in 1 posts
Likes Given: 0
His extreme actions showed how much pain he went thru. To go to the extend of engraving the dates on the knives just show how resentful he was at that point of killing. His wife’s affair, his hard-earned money gone and his precious daughter being taken away from him in his 60s(all at retirement age).i think it’s just as good as his world had instantly crashed. How many can really empathise and feel what he was feeling?!
This is a very tragic case. I’m not saying it’s right to murder someone but No one would resort to such extreme act for no apparent reason. ☹️☹️
Posts: 1,442
   
Threads: 9
    
Likes Received: 252 in 241 posts
Likes Given: 126
Twice divorced.....either impotent or highly potent.
Users browsing this thread: 1 Guest(s)