[EvertonDiehard]

It is often said that our personality is largely shaped by the pre-school years. If that is true, growing up alone may have a significant impact on our social preferences. Before I went to kindergarten, I spent most of my time alone, watching TV and enjoying my own company. My parents and older brother were often busy with work and school, so I had a lot of time alone. I liked being able to do whatever I wanted without having to share my toys or TV time with anyone. Starting school was a major adjustment. I dreaded the idea of interacting with others and have never really gotten used to it. Even as an adult, I prefer solitude. While I can be social, it always feels like a compromise. Being alone seems so natural. I cannot say for sure if everyone who grew up alone feels the same way. Perhaps those who were constantly surrounded by others might find solitude uncomfortable. For me, being alone has been a source of comfort and independence. That is why I prefer to WFH instead of interacting with co-workers in the office, and cherish those 2 days per week when I am more productive at home or at my town club. 

[winbig]

It is often said that our personality is largely shaped by the pre-school years. If that is true, growing up alone may have a significant impact on our social preferences. Before I went to kindergarten, I spent most of my time alone, watching TV and enjoying my own company. My parents and older brother were often busy with work and school, so I had a lot of time alone. I liked being able to do whatever I wanted without having to share my toys or TV time with anyone. Starting school was a major adjustment. I dreaded the idea of interacting with others and have never really gotten used to it. Even as an adult, I prefer solitude. While I can be social, it always feels like a compromise. Being alone seems so natural. I cannot say for sure if everyone who grew up alone feels the same way. Perhaps those who were constantly surrounded by others might find solitude uncomfortable. For me, being alone has been a source of comfort and independence. That is why I prefer to WFH instead of interacting with co-workers in the office, and cherish those 2 days per week when I am more productive at home or at my town club. 

I prefer to be alone. I think it's due to age. As I grow older, I tend not to socialise as much as possible. I rather be alone and do my own stuff.

[EvertonDiehard]

I prefer to be alone. I think it's due to age. As I grow older, I tend not to socialise as much as possible. I rather be alone and do my own stuff.

I share your sentiments. My typical morning routine is to send my children to JC and NUS, before heading to the office or back home for remote work. I value the solitude inside my room at the workplace or my residence. That is why I find meetings a particular waste of time since I am at my most productive when left alone to clear my tasks. I also prefer eating lunch alone, whether it is at an eatery or packing food back. I wasn't always like this though, and was sociable in my younger days. My circle of close friends has also shrunk because I don't often meet them for meals or drinks these days, preferring the solitude of home where I am happiest watching Netflix, YouTube, reading, working out at the gym, taking an evening walk or swimming.   

[tone]

It is often said that our personality is largely shaped by the pre-school years. If that is true, growing up alone may have a significant impact on our social preferences. Before I went to kindergarten, I spent most of my time alone, watching TV and enjoying my own company. My parents and older brother were often busy with work and school, so I had a lot of time alone. I liked being able to do whatever I wanted without having to share my toys or TV time with anyone. Starting school was a major adjustment. I dreaded the idea of interacting with others and have never really gotten used to it. Even as an adult, I prefer solitude. While I can be social, it always feels like a compromise. Being alone seems so natural. I cannot say for sure if everyone who grew up alone feels the same way. Perhaps those who were constantly surrounded by others might find solitude uncomfortable. For me, being alone has been a source of comfort and independence. That is why I prefer to WFH instead of interacting with co-workers in the office, and cherish those 2 days per week when I am more productive at home or at my town club. 

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[WhatDoYouThink!]

It is often said that our personality is largely shaped by the pre-school years. If that is true, growing up alone may have a significant impact on our social preferences. Before I went to kindergarten, I spent most of my time alone, watching TV and enjoying my own company. My parents and older brother were often busy with work and school, so I had a lot of time alone. I liked being able to do whatever I wanted without having to share my toys or TV time with anyone. Starting school was a major adjustment. I dreaded the idea of interacting with others and have never really gotten used to it. Even as an adult, I prefer solitude. While I can be social, it always feels like a compromise. Being alone seems so natural. I cannot say for sure if everyone who grew up alone feels the same way. Perhaps those who were constantly surrounded by others might find solitude uncomfortable. For me, being alone has been a source of comfort and independence. That is why I prefer to WFH instead of interacting with co-workers in the office, and cherish those 2 days per week when I am more productive at home or at my town club. 

Sounds like an introvert. Not a bad thing for being one though

[EvertonDiehard]

Sounds like an introvert. Not a bad thing for being one though

You are not wrong that I value my "me time" when I am most at peace watching Netflix, YouTube videos or simply being online. However, I also like human interaction with family, friends and colleagues (though not as much as being in solitude) so I am not really a loner or recluse.

[EvertonDiehard]

I would gladly give up my "me time" for her. LOL!