[Bigiron]

How to deal with questions about marriage and children during Chinese New Year

Nb for subscribers only pui

https://www.straitstimes.com/opinion/how...e-new-year

[sgbuffett]

Very year I kena ask this question.
I just say "cannot find...still looking..'

[forum456]

Very year I kena ask this question.
I just say "cannot find..."

your standard is very high.

[pinkpanther]

Very year I kena ask this question.
I just say "cannot find..."

Got hole can already...Don be so picky

[menghuii]

easy
give big angpows to the lao qian bei
whisper to them DONT MENTION ABOUT MARRIAGE & CHILDREN!

[RiseofAsia]

The trick in answering those questions is to let them guess. Never give direct answer.

Answer or don’t answer their question also cannot. Best is to let them guess.

Eg, do you have gf already?
Have, but still don’t know which I want to engage.

[RiseofAsia]

Very year I kena ask this question.
I just say "cannot find...still looking..'

So many women out there. Just show her your sincerity and security. She will be your woman in life.

[Oyk]

Very year I kena ask this question.
I just say "cannot find...still looking..'

When are you getting married?  Wendy is available...

[Oyk]

So many women out there. Just show her your sincerity and security. She will be your woman in life.

Every hawker centre, food court and coffee shop has peepur eating alone, both men and women.  You just observe during dinner hours.

Some are Malaysians who work here and rent a room, live alone, or with a roommate.

Some are sinkies who are single.  If you are a man, just find a table with a woman eating alone.

You:  有人坐吗？
Observe how she responds...

1.  Shy. Shakes her head, shyly, smiles a bit
2.  She shows signs of not being very happy to have to share the table with you.
3.  She does not seem to understand what you said (could be Vietnamese, Burmese who look like a Han)

The second one is a turn off. The third one...up to you, if you think you are on with a FT-bu.

You:  Is it nice (eyes looking at what she's eating.
Listen to her responses,  Is she happy to reply, friendly...or stuck up?

So many ways to start a conversation, SgBuffet.

[pinkpanther]

Every hawker centre, food court and coffee shop has peepur eating alone, both men and women.  You just observe during dinner hours.

Some are Malaysians who work here and rent a room, live alone, or with a roommate.

Some are sinkies who are single.  If you are a man, just find a table with a woman eating alone.

You:  有人坐吗？
Observe how she responds...

1.  Shy.  Shakes her head, shyly, smiles a bit
2.  She shows signs of not being very happy to have to share the table with you.
3.  She does not seem to understand what you said (could be Vietnamese, Burmese who look like a Han)

The second one is a turn off.  The third one...up to you, if you think you are on with a FT-bu.

You:  Is it nice (eyes looking at what she's eating.
Listen to her responses,  Is she happy to reply, friendly...or stuck up?

So many ways to start a conversation, SgBuffet.

Just stand at the mrt entrance and ask any female that walk past you if they are willing to be your gf!

You : want to be my steady??
60 years old rich tai tai : yeah why not!

It is just a number game....you ask 1000 females sure got 1 will say yes!

[KILLjoy]

[Oyk]

Just stand at the mrt entrance and ask any female that walk past you if they are willing to be your gf!

You : want to be my steady??
60 years old rich tai tai : yeah why not!

It is just a number game....you ask 1000 females sure got 1 will say yes!

The way you do it....sure! sure can get!

And the atb will ask you:  要洗脸吗？  

[EvertonDiehard]

Got hole can already...Don be so picky

[EvertonDiehard]

So many women out there. Just show her your sincerity and security. She will be your woman in life.

There is only 1 woman worth dating in this MRT carriage

[KILLjoy]

[KILLjoy]

[KILLjoy]

[EvertonDiehard]

[KILLjoy]

[KILLjoy]

thats the world's ugliest being ever be
yucks & pui

[EvertonDiehard]

thats the world's ugliest being ever be. yucks & pui

The hubby is probably blind or likes "lady boys".

[KILLjoy]

[KILLjoy]

[Lukongsimi]

Very year I kena ask this question.
I just say "cannot find...still looking..'

U want to live a carefree life just say so loh

[Lukongsimi]

Very year I kena ask this question.
I just say "cannot find...still looking..'

U want to live a carefree life just say so loh 
Eat soft rice needs to be good looking and young

[EvertonDiehard]

U want to live a carefree life just say so loh. Eat soft rice needs to be good looking and young

Local DJ Vernon A is an old cow who likes eating young grass