[p1acebo]

How about those left in orphanage homes, brother?

No bian bro, that is the luck of the draw in life

[debono]

Yes, her own elderly parents did not object, saying it is her own money. Her daughter is already grown up. She need to earn her own keep.

But it is said in the narrative that the daughter needs money for her studies............

[p1acebo]

But it is said in the narrative that the daughter needs money for her studies............

The mother must have been brainwashed by the nunnery cult.  I wonder if the abbot wanted to be a rock star or not

Hmm any parallels to the Right Rev Con Hee?

[Scythian]

No bian bro, that is the luck of the draw in life

Reported 8 billion people living on earth and none lives life and experience similarities.

[p1acebo]

Reported 8 billion people living on earth and none lives life and experience similarities.

Actually it has been reported that identical twins sometimes do.

[p1acebo]

God created Life to be so complex and complicated..

It's difficult to know what actually went wrong..

Beri cheem.  Maybe the mother liked the daughter’s boyfriend

[p1acebo]

Why own monies cannot decide give who? It is law must give your offspring is it? Now is 2022 not last time. I support the mum. Let her kids ownself earn monies don't sit there shake leg monies drop give them spend

How we relate to this matter basically stems from how we ourselves frame our own relationships with our own parents and children.

[Huliwang]

Actually what this woman did was not in compliance with the Right practice of the Eight Fold Path. One cannot just let go and be detached from worldly matters abruptly by donating away everything including one's purse to the Sangha. Before doing that a path walker and a good temple abbot will ensure that the disciple had settled completely all his/her worldly matters. If I remember correctly Chinese Mahayana Buddhism will not ordain anyone by shaving the head and burn six incense marks on the head until the person had settled all his worldly affairs to the satisfaction of everyone including his/her family. ....

[WhatDoYouThink!]

must be something wrong. like either one of them turned to cult like flg and upset the other

[sgh]

If the mother doesn’t even bother to take care of her own daughter, nobody else will.  I’m not saying give the daughter everything, but at least spare some money for her studies.  To leave totally nothing is very mean and heartless.  Now we know there are such parents around and no wonder chenghu also need the Parents Maintenance Act.

Basically put, you donch take care of your children when they growing up, when you grow old, you also donch expect your children to take care of you

Too bad Msia no parents maintenance act but Spore got. It is for parents to go sue children for monies not the other way.

[sgh]

How we relate to this matter basically stems from how we ourselves frame our own relationships with our own parents and children.

My spouse Msia and I see her mother working at 80 to feed 50+ yr old son who dream of being boss and never been an employee in his life. Always think of pattern to get monies. Latest antics is want to grow vegetables be boss so take monies from old mother haha

[p1acebo]

Too bad Msia no parents maintenance act but Spore got. It is for parents to go sue children for monies not the other way.

Agreed, that's why the children in return don't take care back their parents, hence the need to sue them.

[p1acebo]

My spouse Msia and I see her mother working at 80 to feed 50+ yr old son who dream of being boss and never been an employee in his life. Always think of pattern to get monies. Latest antics is want to grow vegetables be boss so take monies from old mother haha

Yes, that's why our thinking is shaped by the experiences around us.  Agree with you.  No one size fits all.

[debono]

How we relate to this matter basically stems from how we ourselves frame our own relationships with our own parents and children.

Well said, you deserve a like and a rep. pt..........