[lylcnn]

You are using a work assignment to compare. When it comes to work, emotions are set aside. If something happened at home, the boss can ask how long it takes to settle or ask the person to go no pay leave.

You are talking about a supposedly rape victim coming to you to tell you her dark secret. Then you will give her a timeline to fix something she kept as a secret for a decade to be resolved with her family in a week or so?

That's why I said, perhaps when the white folks have rape experience themselves or in their family, they should quickly do a press conference and throw a few tables to announce to the world. 

The COP is all in hindsight kind of argument. And treating rape and rape victim as just another flu or cold that's common and can just address immediately instead of giving the person time to fix herself.

can it be clarified without revealing sex assault details? To eradicate lie as immediate objective? if no, why not? Is there gains to be had in hoping issue blows over by itself? If it did, who gained who lost?