[Bigiron]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Defence_mechanism

Level 1: pathological

Level I – pathological defences (psychotic denial, delusional projection)
1.Delusional projection: Delusions about external reality, usually of a persecutory nature
2.Denial: Refusal to accept external reality because it is too threatening; arguing against an anxiety-provoking stimulus by stating it does not exist; resolution of emotional conflict and reduction of anxiety by refusing to perceive or consciously acknowledge the more unpleasant aspects of external reality
3.Distortion: A gross reshaping of external reality to meet internal needs

Level 2: immature

4.Acting out: Direct expression of an unconscious wish or impulse in action, without conscious awareness of the emotion that drives the expressive behavior
5.Hypochondriasis: An excessive preoccupation or worry about having a serious illness
6.Passive-aggressive behavior: Indirect expression of hostility
7.Projection: A primitive form of paranoia. Projection reduces anxiety by allowing the expression of the undesirable impulses or desires without becoming consciously aware of them; attributing one's own unacknowledged, unacceptable, or unwanted thoughts and emotions to another; includes severe prejudice and jealousy, hypervigilance to external danger, and "injustice collecting", all with the aim of shifting one's unacceptable thoughts, feelings and impulses onto someone else, such that those same thoughts, feelings, beliefs and motivations are perceived as being possessed by the other.
8.Schizoid fantasy: Tendency to retreat into fantasy in order to resolve inner and outer conflicts
9.Splitting: A primitive defence. Both harmful and helpful impulses are split off and segregated, frequently projected onto someone else. The defended individual segregates experiences into all-good and all-bad categories, with no room for ambiguity and ambivalence. When "splitting" is combined with "projecting", the undesirable qualities that one unconsciously perceives oneself as possessing, one consciously attributes to another.

Level 3: neurotic

10.Displacement: Defence mechanism that shifts sexual or aggressive impulses to a more acceptable or less threatening target; redirecting emotion to a safer outlet; separation of emotion from its real object and redirection of the intense emotion toward someone or something that is less offensive or threatening in order to avoid dealing directly with what is frightening or threatening.
11.Dissociation: Temporary drastic modification of one's personal identity or character to avoid emotional distress; separation or postponement of a feeling that normally would accompany a situation or thought.
12.Intellectualization: Excessively analytical or abstract thought patterns, potentially leading to increased distance from one's emotions. Used to block out conflicting or disturbing feelings or thoughts.[28]
13.Isolation of affect: The detachment of emotion from an idea, making it "flat." Frequently observed in obsessive–compulsive disorder, and in non-disordered people following traumatic events.[29]
14.Reaction formation: Converting unconscious wishes or impulses that are perceived to be dangerous or unacceptable into their opposites; behaviour that is completely the opposite of what one really wants or feels; taking the opposite belief because the true belief causes anxiety
15.Repression: The process of attempting to repel desires towards pleasurable instincts, caused by a threat of suffering if the desire is satisfied; the desire is moved to the unconscious in the attempt to prevent it from entering consciousness;[30] seemingly unexplainable naivety, memory lapse or lack of awareness of one's own situation and condition; the emotion is conscious, but the idea behind it is absent

Level 4: mature

16.Altruism: Constructive service to others that brings pleasure and personal satisfaction
17.Anticipation: Realistic planning for future discomfort
18.Humour: Overt expression of ideas and feelings (especially those that are unpleasant to focus on or too terrible to talk about directly) that gives pleasure to others. The thoughts retain a portion of their innate distress, but they are "skirted around" by witticism, for example, self-deprecation.
19.Sublimation: Transformation of unhelpful emotions or instincts into healthy actions, behaviours, or emotions; for example, playing a heavy contact sport such as football or rugby can transform aggression into a game
20.Suppression: The conscious decision to delay paying attention to a thought, emotion, or need in order to cope with the present reality; making it possible later to access uncomfortable or distressing emotions whilst accepting them

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J2XuzSm6o6Y

[wendychan]

Lol big time

[Bigiron]

Lol big time

really level 1 and level 2 thinking immature

[IndianChief]

If you want to see what happens if you give power to people who can't handle power, look at edmw mods

[LupCheong]

Thank for the poll options

[LupCheong]

I choose level 1.

[omgwtflol]

They seriously think they are too big to fail with SPH backing behind. They think they are the most popular forum in Singapore and users have to kowtow to them if they still want to use their platform.

[Huliwang]

Abusive power and control (also controlling behavior and coercive control)[1] is behavior used by an abusive person to gain and/or maintain control over another person. Abusers are commonly motivated by devaluation, envy, personal gain, personal gratification, psychological projection, or the enjoyment of exercising power and control.[2] The victims of this behavior are often subject to psychological, physical, mental, sexual, or financial abuse.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abusive_...nd_control

[IndianChief]

They seriously think they are too big to fail with SPH backing behind. They think they are the most popular forum in Singapore and users have to kowtow to them if they still want to use their platform.

I remember Vijay was begging like a dog, asking people to not leave the forum during the rxodus on 2015. Once people give him a chance, he flip prata and start his dictatorahip nonsense again

[fishbuff]

I remember Vijay was begging like a dog, asking people to not leave the forum during the rxodus on 2015. Once people give him a chance, he flip prata and start his dictatorahip nonsense again

reminds me of LHL and PAP during every election, shed tear and promise to reform, but in the end, nothing change.

anyway, time to let go.

[limpeh394]

CECA snake mindset lah

[LupCheong]

CECA snake mindset lah

Yup you are right