[Oyk]

overheard
share table ar HL foodcentre

girl asked me can share table
I said ok
then her gal friend came over 
He said *seats so dirty*
she cleaned the seat 
then she said ok
you take me seat
and she sat on dirty seat

then she told guy friend * I want lian yang tea

He commented
got such tea meh
要加钱的

This story shows that you are stuck in old mindset....you expect the man to be a white knight pandering to a woman, so this incident got your $1 panty into a mighty twist.