[sgbuffett]

can tell he is in great pain

such act can tell

he cannot let go

Ability to let go and move away from bad experience is important.

A purely unemotional person can easily let go and move ahead.

There was a previous case of Singaporean man who went to US. He wife started seeing another man and wanted divorce, he killed the man and now in jail. .....in the end he cannot let go and destroyed 2 lives. His own and the man he killed. It is illogical and makes no sense.he was a successful engineer who drove a Mercedes now he is thrown in jail for 26yrs. He could have moved on find someone else and lead a successful life....but he could not get out of his emotional trap.....

Such emotional traps be it demotivating, jealousy, addiction or self limitation can trap and lock a person in a vicious cycle.

The story is here:

https://www.straitstimes.com/world/unite...-wife-then