[Oyk]

I am not surprised w your reaction against Chinese traditio...It is clear your mention violence and sexual topic is deeply tie to your subscription of certain belief..not unlike the crimes commited by the Jap in not so long ago...Perhaps this will help refresh your memory:

Since the Fall, all men are born with the evil nature because of the Original Sin.  You may not like it if I say you are a sinner.  Perhaps, you might even challenge me to name all your sins starting from those committed yesterday to the day when your mother popped you out.  I admit that I would be unable to do that since I do not know you in real life so you can HIDE.

But manthink, you CANNOT hide from God.  He knows all your sins, and if you accept Christs as your Lord and Saviour, his substitutionary death would atone for all of your sins.  You only need to deal with your pride...are you willing to humble yourself to do that?  I know it is hard for you because you are a proud woman who thinks highly of yourself..