[Ali Imran]

Bro, that's YOUR definition of a good wife. Is it written anywhere in your koran to say that when she leaves the house she must seek the husband's permission?

Yes, there are general guidelines given to us men on the description of a righteous wife in the Quran. She will be devoutly obedient and she will guard herself in her husband's absence. That means she will not go out of the house if her husband doesn't know she wants to go out.