(10-01-2024, 01:30 PM)Oyk Wrote: If I try to see things from their POV, your biological mother is not a legal wife. Their mother is the legal wife, and they would consider that the inheritance is supposed to be due to them, all of it.
You are certainly Harold Chan's daughter because you have his genes, or part of it, the rest being those from your biological mother. Your relationship with your father cannot be challenged in any court of law. It is your mother's relationship with your father which can be challenged because she has no status as a wife at all.
Your half-siblings may therefore feel that you should get nothing from the old man's estate.
Your position is probably that you should get something because you are still his biological daughter, in every sense of it.
If your late father had written a WILL very clearly, there can be no argument about who gets what. If he died intestate, then it's now up to the courts.
What's there to fight anymore?
You are being sued for breaking a promise to not talk?
PS: I shant throw Chinese sayings at you. I think nobody can truly or fully understand what it is like for you if he has not even walked one mile in your shoes. But you are not alone unless you choose to be. I assume you are not married, and so all the more, you feel very lonely in all of this. It happened ten years ago after the old man died. But according to you, it had been brewing for over 4 tens years. How many more "tens" do we all have left? Don't let your anger and hatred eat you up. Time to let go, and just live a simple life...and I sincerely wish you will turn to Jesus and ask Him to set you free..
please lah. its not as simple as that
but one thing for sure, just coz i aint got a man. doesnt mean i am lonely. but i AM
FOOking angry
and im not fighting
i got no money to sue nor can i use anyone else's money to sue, unlike some others
but up to a certain point, mom said all kids in HER will
of course, they can turn around and say i was lyingg
but thats on them and hell
but im qiuite sure by now, one by one, incluiding teh ones who have stack of $$ that i have been written out already
wat they did they know but got money to hide their actions
and dont tell me im greedy
in signapore cant live in a vehicle..... and im going to have to sell my flat soon and go and live in a ditch or similar
them doggies reading this - go report to your masters so that they can cream theselves
and really FOOk jesus
some go wesley methodist, some go temple
and do all this SHIT
and with money, god forgives