Upper Bukit Timah deaths: Xavier Yap, the father of two 11-year-old boys who were
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Upper Bukit Timah deaths: Xavier Yap, the father of two 11-year-old boys who were found dead in a canal, has been taken back by police to where their bodies were discovered. 

https://cna.asia/33VHpAb
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RIP boys
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If i were him i will just keep silent and talk cock all the way since its already death penalty...
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(27-01-2022, 04:38 PM)Sharexchange Wrote:  If i were him i will just keep silent and talk cock all the way since its already death penalty...

It is scary to be sentenced to a death penalty, cos they don't hang you immediately, they will wait a day when you least expected that they will send you to the gallows......
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He wud not b sentenced to death, life sentence only.

Frim now till his deathbed, his boys will haunt him every day
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But the charge is only 1 Boy. The other Boy is accident?
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(27-01-2022, 04:40 PM)debono Wrote:  It is scary to be sentenced to a death penalty, cos they don't hang you immediately, they will wait a day when you least expected that they will send you to the gallows......
Seems like you experienced death sentence before.......

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Tough life.
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In some dark sort of way, the father maybe feel relieved

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(27-01-2022, 04:44 PM)Huliwang Wrote:  Seems like you experienced death sentence before.......

Will I be here to 'talk' in sgtalk.........
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(27-01-2022, 04:50 PM)debono Wrote:  Will I be here to 'talk' in sgtalk.........

Omg awat hantu Big Grin

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Hope he only get a few years of jail term.
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(27-01-2022, 05:15 PM)theold Wrote:  Hope he only get a few years of jail term.

But it is a homicide charge for not one but two lives......
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(27-01-2022, 05:17 PM)debono Wrote:  But it is a homicide charge for not one but two lives......

The only thing i care is the cause. The why


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(27-01-2022, 04:38 PM)Sharexchange Wrote:  If i were him i will just keep silent and talk cock all the way since its already death penalty...
In my views, he shd not be sentenced to death in fair judgement. I recalled a case of an Indonesian maid who throw down an autistic kid from the flat was not sentenced to death. She was only jailed a few years and deported to Indonesia thereafter. 2 life are gone and please don’t take away another life.
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(27-01-2022, 04:38 PM)Sharexchange Wrote:  If i were him i will just keep silent and talk cock all the way since its already death penalty...

It is not already death penalty. The judge can decide to give a few years or life imprisonment.
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(27-01-2022, 05:23 PM)Gemstar Wrote:  In my views, he shd not be sentenced to death in fair judgement. I recalled a case of an Indonesian maid who throw down an autistic kid from the flat was not sentenced to death. She was only jailed a few years and deported to Indonesia thereafter. 2 life are gone and please don’t take away another life.

If he plan it, the judge will likely give the death sentence. If not plan, then maybe few years.

The gang fight at downtown east also no death sentence even though the poly boy died.

But it is up to the judge.
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To the father,maybe taking care of the autistic boys for 11 years feel like a death penalty already. Any sentence from the court might come as a reprieve for him.
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We should also be sympathetic to the man as well. Not easy to kill own children unless driven to extreme desperation. He raised the 2 kids for 11 years and then takeaway their lives. The situation must be real dire to make him do that. Hope the court would apply compassion and discretion if there is a sad story behind the killing. Should think for his daughter and wife who lost so many family members at the same time.
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I'm sad for him. No father will want to murder his own children. There must be some inexplicable reasons that led him to it.
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It is traumatic enough for the family and the accused. Hope and pray that the courts have pity on the accused.

tomorrow will be a better day
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(27-01-2022, 06:43 PM)pinkpanther Wrote:  To the father,maybe taking care of the autistic boys for 11 years feel like a death penalty already. Any sentence from the court might come as a reprieve for him.

Looking after one autistic son is already tough, and he has (had) two.

It is definitely very emotionally draining.

Looking after a sick parent would still have an End Date which is when the parent eventually dies.

Looking after someone who is younger than you, like your son...it's for life.  You have to look after both of them till the day you die.   It's no joke.
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(27-01-2022, 07:59 PM)surfer Wrote:  It is traumatic enough for the family and the accused. Hope and pray that the courts have pity on the accused.

I am sure the judge will be sympathetic, when he hears the father's case......the reason why he killed his own flesh and blood must be some drastic reason.......
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(27-01-2022, 08:35 PM)Oyk Wrote:  Looking after one autistic son is already tough, and he has (had) two.

It is definitely very emotionally draining.

Looking after a sick parent would still have an End Date which is when the parent eventually dies.

Looking after someone who is younger than you, like your son...it's for life.  You have to look after both of them till the day you die.   It's no joke.

It's much worse than that, as autistic child can be disruptive and demanding of all sorts of trivial things añd some hurt themselves all the time

To those who do not consider autistic as a mental sickness, they will never understand autistic
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Last year, a father killed his grown up daughter who begins to demand too much and even threaten tó kill her parents if they do ñot sell their hdb and give her the proceeds

I dont know what happen to the case, i think the father was sent to jsil for a minimum time on account of this background

The court did the right thing

There was also añother case of the mother not willing to report on her son, but got beaten and slaved by her son until the nephew reported the son when the nother sought refuge at her sister's place, something like that
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In the animal kingdom, if the offspring is weak or sick, the parent will either eat it or dispose it. We humans are less fortunate as we still have to adhere to the social moral obligation and ethics.
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(27-01-2022, 09:53 PM)pinkpanther Wrote:  In the animal kingdom, if the offspring is weak or sick, the parent will either eat it or dispose it. We humans are less fortunate as we still have to adhere to the social moral obligation and ethics.

That is the reason we are humans, we have a sympathetic heart and with high moral standings......
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Still no explanation what happened.
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(27-01-2022, 06:31 PM)RichDad Wrote:  If he plan it, the judge will likely give the death sentence. If not plan, then maybe few years. 

The gang fight at downtown east also no death sentence even though the poly boy died.

But it is up to the judge.
In this world, which parents wil not love their own kids. I believed the father and 2 kids hv suffered enough. It is pain-staking bringing up these 2 kids and he cud going through a mental torture together with his wife.
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Judge here and Hell Judge must know that those are not ordinary kids. Tremendous efforts and full energy to devote to looking after the kids. Never easy to see a church friend minding her boy who just freaked out with so many people around. Rumour had it decades ago before China opened up, docs will give injections to babies born of not the normal type because it will be a social cost to the commi.
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