[p1acebo]

I have no phobia of marriage..
I just believe marriage should just come naturally when it makes sense...and if not one can stay single and happy...that is also okay.

I don't go and chase after marriage or go to the extent of  finding spouses overseas through match makers.

Donch wait too long.  But if you are fine being single, so be it.  Nobody can judge you.  I know of one chiobu.  When she was young, she was so attractive and demure.  Well educated.  Masters degree.  Many suitors.  But she rejected them all.  Family first.  She took care of her sisters education and finances.  Refined and gentle.  Just don't let her lapse into hokkien.  Then she sounds like a gangster