[Oyk]

Now I know why you are still single... you got many negative thoughts and probably low self esteem, sigh.

Be positive and confident lah. Dont know, can learn. Even if poor hand , eye, leg, whatever coordination,  just do it.

Have fun, free your mind and the rest will follow.

Good luck.

Can advise him to do a SWOT analysis.

Identify his strengths, and work on those which would make him stand out among others.

But if hand-eye coordination is his weakness, it does not stand to reason to tell him to "just do it" and look like a fool on the dancing floor.  Some people do dance very well because they have good hand-eye coordination, and it comes so naturally to them.  It helps if they have a nice body.

I happened to have good hand-eye coordination, which makes me a good fighter in karate, muay thai.   Of course I am not a world champion but I can surely defend myself well against most peepur.