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Anybody wants to zhut zhut my ranjiao?  I am a chao gay.  

Sorry man.  I am straight.  Give me Nutella zeh zeh anytime.   

And don't disturb me today.  I am busy reading the posts written by Multiversal kor kor.  Since you don't have a life anyway,  come and join me there.  But you'd better behave yourself there because you ain't the Owner and Admin of edmw.  You'd get pbanm faster than your mother can zhut zhut Observer...

https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threa...-150043505

Spinnin Quirk
Actually what's the point of this thread?

Is TS trying to suan the guy or suan the girl? Or both?

Cos the more I think about it, the more I feel this date shouldn't have taken place in the first place:
Guy who wants to save money for the right girl and kids, kenna accused as ngiao ji.

Girl who wants to be pampered and sponsored on the first date but 2023 is the year of gender equality.
Plus usually many times when there's a one-sided story from a female, EDMWers will say no judgment until they hear the other party's story.

Why now this time so many EDMWers auto-conclude the guy is ngiao ji? Why isn't it deemed that the guy takes money very seriously, can be trusted with money and spending it wisely?

On the contrary, many EDMWers don't agree with Jap wife taking all the husband's earnings every month.
She's the wife and the manager of the household, isn't she?

Why so many lopsided, contrarian conclusions?

And even got people getting personally offended, though I'm just discussing and attempting to refute the points being made.

I just want to shoot the message, but people with shoulder processors (Intel Inside) get offended and try their hardest to shoot the messenger.

Multiversal

You made some very interesting observations, and I would agree that these observations or reasons are true now and before, and will still be so in the future.

In fact, what you wrote are only a few scenarios or paradigms because the human mind is so varied and complicated, such that the Chinese saying was not encapsulated as "One kind of rice feeds a few men" but "..........a hundred men" where "hundred" is used to refer to a very large number of men (and women) that's actually uncountable.

We often say "It is hard to read a person's mind".  We really cannot know for sure how a person would respond to our words and/or actions.  The same thing (output) can happen because of different reasons (inputs)  while the same reason (input) can lead to not the same but different actions (output).

Input and output, action and reaction, cause and effect,  are not necessarily correlated in a fixed set format, but are dependent on the mind of the person, and how he/she processes inputs.

https://forums.hardwarezone.com.sg/threa...-150043386

Nevereatrice
Wow that's deep

Multiversal

You say deep, but if you think deeper, you'd know that this is because of what we call testosterone.  It leads to a man being active-aggressive which leads to fights, killings, and sexual aggression.

Generally, as a man ages, his testosterone level drops and we say "He mellowed down".

So you don't often find women going around fighting, killing or being the active-aggressive party

But the lust for money, for immense wealth is common both to the man and the woman.  It is not determined by testosterone levels but by the mind which has fallen captive to a world of greed and materialism after the Fall at the "Garden".