[Ali Imran]

There comes a point in our life when we'll begin 'ordering' our mother or father. Mind you, not bossing them around but ordering them to take nutritious meals and get plenty of fresh air and exercise, just what the doctor ordered. This role reversal is set to take place when our parents go into the evening of their lives, with us becoming their caregivers and they in our care. We may have to make important decisions concerning them, such as sending them to a nursing or old-age home when we're no longer able to handle them. Caring for the elderly can be an intolerable burden.

The aged are likened to babies. Old age is a second childhood phase, one in which oldies need the care and intervention of others as they start getting afflicted with the deteriorative process which naturally terminates the functional life of an organ or other life unit. Senescence is a phase of the aging process.

From your writing, I deduce you're a sexagenarian. The day of taking charge of your mum is drawing nigh. I wouldn't blink when your mum kisses your hand to express her gratitude for taking good care of her.

I had to google sexagenarian. And yes, I just turned 60.   

I get what you're saying. Thank you. Fyi, we Muslims have another rule we must follow when dealing with our aged parents which you may not be aware of and very difficult to adhere to. No harsh words or raised voice.