[EvertonDiehard]

I am already at the stage that you have highlighted. 😊 Yes life changes are inevitable but not challenging. Once you accept it. Even for your own death. In order to fully comprehend and accept the reality of life, it is essential to acknowledge that everyone, regardless of their socioeconomic status, is susceptible to illness, frailty, and the inevitable approach of mortality.. We will never know how we or our spouse are going to die. So why stress over it?Just make it as comfortable as possible, and be happy. As some people say, a happy ending.In the midst of maintaining my well-being, engaging in moderate physical activity, and seeking moments of solitary relaxation in outdoor settings or shopping centers, as well as fostering connections with former acquaintances through social engagements such as lunch gatherings, constitute the most gratifying experiences for me.It is my good fortune to have meticulously planned for a financially secure retirement, although this does not imply immense wealth. I have a clear vision of how I intend to spend the remaining 10 to 20 years of my life.Anxiety and depression are not something I worry about at my age.
During my periods of leisure, I periodically contemplate my previous acquaintances, offspring, and romantic partners. Wishing them well, have a happy life once I am gone...Those are my experiences with aging.. 😊 Don't worry 😉.

The transition from a structured work life to retirement may lead to feelings of purposelessness and a focus on personal fulfilment. I believe that many older adults remain generous, compassionate and engaged with their families and communities like my parents. Prioritising their health and well-being is essential, especially as they age. It doesn't necessarily equate to selfishness. I notice instances of self-centred behaviour in my elderly parents, and consider if there might be underlying health concerns or emotional issues causing this.