[sgh]

A marriage is supposed to be a joyous milestone in the couple's life.

Ideally there's true love and not one of just following the flow... must get married, age is catching up, if not now, when? So get married and get it over with..

That kind of marriage will be shortlived because women today earn good money and unlike those two generations ago will not hesitate to file for divorce.

So if a marriage is a happy event of the union of a man and a woman, it calls for a celebration which cones with a feast.

In ancient China the feast was held at home, never at an inn that's meant for travellers. I think every race of peepur celebrates the occasion. I don't agree that we should cut it down to a barebone event just to avoid spending even one cent on the feast... or if you like, banquet.

But if you are by nature and in real life an introvert, you may have a serious problem filling up 40 tables. You have so few friends that you'd end up inviting even a new colleague in the office who just joined the company three days ago.

But that's not yet the end of your problems. On D Day, you'd be so socially awkward with 400 guests whom you had hardly spoken to, that you'd wish that the kitchen serves the dishes faster and the banquet can be over by 8.15 pm and you can go home...

Write so much also come down to my earlier post Got monies then do, no monies don't beat swell face skin pretend to be fatty. If I can reset time I would not get married or have kids else I should be now retiring and not work face green green feed family delaying my retirement for so many years a super rugi deal.